Helps us to identify the fear or judgment that has caused us to close off an energetic connection. Helps maintain energetic connections, both within the self and outside of the self. Helps us to maintain a heart connection when it is necessary to close off a physical connection. Supports us in holding an intention of neutrality toward those who have "caused" us injury or distress. Supports the identification of mind patterns and energies within us that do not serve.

When to use chocolate lily:

• When we are leaving or changing an old relationship that no longer serves.
• When family pressures feel like they are in the way of our progress.
• When we feel judgment from others.
• When we are seeking to identify the beliefs and limitations that are no longer of service to us.
• When we have difficulty identifying what we are feeling or thinking.
• When letting go of resentment toward others or judgment of others.
• When doing inner child work.

Sample affirmation: I bless         on his/her sacred path/ I choose to move on. I create personal boundaries and honor them. I invite only positive energy into my space.