Eases fear of surrender. Enhances the creation of new patterns of sexual identity. Aids in healing past violations and traumas. Helps build trust between male and female, both within and outside ourselves.

When to use marigold:

• When we have experienced a trauma or abuse from the opposite sex.
• When we feel guilt or shame around sexuality.
• When we don't trust men, or don't trust women.
• When we feel anxiety about sexuality.
• When we avoid intimacy.
• When we are beginning a new intimate relationship.
• When we are choosing to relate differently than we have in the past.
• When taking on a new role or image.

Sample affirmation: I trust myself. I surrender to love. It is safe to be myself. It is safe to share my essence.